©2013 Edward C. Lunnon
Monday 25 March 2013: 6 years 6 months on …
Physical: Deuce / Mental: Advantage ED
ED is in week EnDing wED 27 March 2013
Wed 20 Mar: AlgoaFM; Gym; Sean Old Grey Rugby vs Crusaders
Thu 21 Mar: Human Rights Day; Grey 1st bt Westville in Grahamstown; lunch at Rat
Fri 22 Mar: Braai at home with Clarkes and Stapletons
Sat 23 Mar: Kings vs Crusaders; Michaela’s 21st birthday party at Dexter’s Den
Sun 24 Mar: Lunch at Bluewaters café; Proteas bt Pakistan; Rest …
Mon 25 Mar: Meeting with Melanie (Hospice); Physio; Visit Ackermanns; Rugby Madibaz vs Maties
Tue 26 Mar: Visit Sr Gill (Hospice); Rest …
It was diarised as a quiet week! A week of rest …
But, this has been a busy week and Human Rights Day long weekend. By Saturday, I was exhausted and had to leave Michaela Botha’s 21st birthday party early. Thank goodness for Sean driving me home at ten. They got home at two am, I was told! This has become the 21st birthday party season!
Friday and Saturday were especially difficult for me – I think it’s partly due to the heat (36 degrees in Grahamstown on Thursday!) and partly due to the busy schedule. I’m just not up to all the travelling, late nights, and occasional beers anymore!
Anyway, I woke up late on Sunday morning feeling much better and, after lunch at Bluewaters café, just lazed on the couch – watching the Proteas beat Pakistan in the last of the One Day Internationals. It was also a cool day and hopefully the start of autumn and the approaching winter weather. I thrive on the colder weather!
The long weekend was special.
It has become a lonely world for me. No work to go to in the morning, no daily interaction with other people, no work functions, few and fewer visitors – as the months go by my world becomes a smaller place and it becomes more difficult to understand what my contribution is to this world.
Even when I have company it becomes difficult to share my world with them. They are so busy with their worlds that no longer have relevance for me and so we live in two different worlds. We live past each other.
The daily programme involves Charlie, our Jack Russell, who is my company when I get up in the morning and for the rest of the day. Barbara, our domestic, is there … with the vacuum cleaner! For the rest, I am kept busy by all my medical appointments, hospice visits and whatever other projects that I have found to keep me busy.
I am not good at keeping my own company!
However, there’s my desktop, my laptop, my IPad and my Blackberry that I couldn’t live without.
They are so challenging but so exciting, and when they go on the blink like this weekend (because of the Seacom cable problem in the Mediterranean Sea somewhere between Egypt and France, MWEB tells me) then I have withdrawal symptoms. Thank goodness for DSTV and Discovery and BBC and SKY and CNN and Richard Attenborough’s AFRICA and Great Britain! We live in an exciting and wonderful world!
So, yes, the long weekend was special to have everyone home – Pera from her work, Sean from his work and Phillip from the boarding house at school. Suddenly, there is chatter and laughter and banter and talk in the house again. It makes a huge difference and is even more noticeable when I get up on Monday morning in an empty house again!
This weekend is Easter long weekend and then school holidays – I look forward to having everyone at home once more!
And a huge congratulations to Phillip who was awarded his academic half-colours at school on Monday!
What started out as a possible 24-hour internet problem is now being touted as possibly a two week problem! How did we work in the years BG (before Google)?