(c) 2014 Edward C Lunnon
8 years 1 month ill …
Physical: Deuce / Mental: ED
Last weekend Pera and I spent with Dickie and Colleen Ogilvie on Doorndraai somewhere in the midst of the Karoo.
In their passage hangs a photo frame with photographs taken of various friends when we all lived in Port Elizabeth. I collated the pics and gave it to them at their farewell party when they left PE.
There is a photo of Rob Stear at David and Debbie Capel’s farewell party at the Thomsons. David was the professional cricket coach at Grey and they were returning to Britain.
The dress was semi-formal – formal from the waist up and casual from the waist down.
We spoke about those “good ole days” when we were just kids ourselves!
We spoke about our good friend Rob Stear – the life and soul of every party.
“Never fear because Stear was here!”
October being cancer awareness month and the Oglvie/Watermeyer homes being familiar with the fight against cancer, we spoke about cancer, hospices and fundraising.
We discussed Rob’s recent battle with cancer.
I said that when we returned to PE I needed to visit Rob.
The visit never took place!
None of us anticipated that Rob would pass away the very next day.
He had a name for everyone and I was Edgar. When we met at Old Grey Club, he would paraphrase the previous week’s radio interview that Edgar had concluded with Lance du Plessis.
He would talk to the ceiling, telling it what “kak” they played on the radio nowadays! It was always just loud enough for me to hear about his complaints. He never admitted to listening to one of our discussions!
Thanks Rob for listening! I know you got something from our talks! In the grand scheme of things, I was supposed to go before you … but then we just never know, do we?
I hope you have that dinner table prepared for our next function – maybe formal this time, but knowing you, it may just be completely casual?
Oh yes, but then I quess I don’t have to remind you, don’t forget the beers!
RIP Rob Roy Stear